So how do we find forgiveness in situations that are unforgivable, really, I

suppose? Exactly.

And so that's one of the questions that people ask me the most, right? How do you forgive the unforgivable situation? And actually that was one of the research, doing a lot of research when I was writing my book on forgiveness, is how do we forgive the unforgivable? And I was working with people, someone who was a survivor from the Holocaust too, and we had to change the name of forgiveness to something different because just the word forgiveness created tension in her body, right? So because we associate forgiveness with saying that everything was fine, that everything was okay, and that we are condoning.

Actually, forgiveness is a totally different thing.

We can change the name.

It's a tool that allows us to claim our power back.

Because the unforgivable, we cannot change what happened.

Yeah,