So just drill down a little bit on that.

Yes, and I suppose that's why I want to emphasize that is as if you're a young lady looking for a man and you're desiring that my husband one day would be a man of authority.

In order to be a man of authority, you need to be a man of submission.

That's right.

Those two things don't live separately.

Jesus himself says because he submitted to the Father, that's where his authority comes, and now that same authority I give to you.

Secondly to that, scripture is so clear that within the relationship of marriage is this desire of being submitted to one another.

So it's