So whether it's a play partner or someone that you are like physically engaging with, you know, how much do you talk with your dom about your dynamic or your service or whatever it is that you're doing, and, and does, does that arouse you? Like does that-- what does that do for you energetically?

So I've seen, uh, several different doms until I found the one that I'm with now.

A lot of them, they'll say, you know, you want-- they want to know what, what it is you're interested in and, and whatnot, and it gets kinda scripted out.

And the ones I'd seen previously, it was all like the same thing every time I went until I found this one, and she knows how to push my edges.

She-- and I, I go in not wanting to know.

I said, you know, "This is kinda what I, what I'm into," but I've got very few things that I say, you know, I'm, I'm not interested in.

And, um, so I let her kinda lead the thing, and it, it...

Oh.