And yeah, I just refuse to buy into this narrative where we don't speak about it.

Oh yeah, I totally agree.

And I think you're right.

It makes us feel like we're failing.

And often we can feel like, and we spoke about this last night, but you can feel like you're doing all of it badly.

you know, you're trying to spin the plates.

I'm certainly trying to spin the parenthood plate.

But as we alluded to earlier, it all kind of came crashing down with, well, I'll let you explain.