What happens to a woman when she loses herself, when she's been in a relationship for so long but she no longer feels like the woman she once was? This

is something that I see quite a lot and it's called self-concept erosion.

So what happens is if you kind of think like the boiling frog, it doesn't notice because it happens so slowly.

So what often I see is women will come to me in therapy and they'll say, I just don't know how I got into this position.

You know, they're 20 years into a relationship.

They're They don't recognize themselves.

They were intelligent, a career woman.

Yeah.