Yes, it all falls apart because it can really cause some stress in the family relationships, I feel like.

It sure can, yes.

Especially with adult children who didn't grow up together, maybe don't know each other really well.

And if we're combining all of the couple's assets into one trust...

Sometimes one partner brings in a lot more assets than the other, but they think, oh, we're married.

We'll just do that.

And then the children after both parents pass feel like, oh, that was my family legacy.

Yeah.