My

spouse was a part of the invasion of Iraq.

And so I'm a 20 something year old with a toddler expecting child number two.

with a spouse who's in a command billet.

And I've got these families looking at me, a 20-something-year-old, going, what do we do? And looking for guidance and looking for connection.

And because it was the start of combat operations, it didn't exist like it does now.

We had to build it.

Tell me about what this is, how big is it, and how does somebody get involved?