I want to ask what made it difficult to recognize that you were carrying an identity expectation or definition of success that wasn't actually yours while you were inside it.

Okay.

So I have a tattoo.

People can like that or not like that.

I don't care.

It's a tattoo of one of those little porcelain doll faces and it has a tear and it's a clown face tattoo.

And people are like, that is the weirdest thing for a guy to put on his leg.

So how do you distinguish authentic storytelling from simply oversharing?