So next up we have step three.

We have step three, and step three is read the room.

So something that I've noticed, like anecdotally, and things that I've been told from some of my friends is that sometimes...

And again, this kind of goes back to the conversation piece, but sometimes you're sleeping with someone and they are saying things that do not equate to what is actually happening.

Mm-hmm.

But I think always leading with what the other person wants before, like, injecting, like, "I would really love to try this," or, "I love, like, when your hands are around my neck," or whatever it is, you know? It's like, "I would love that." But when it comes to, like, acts itself, like acts the other person is doing to you, we're going back to step one before we're even verbalizing this-