We'll talk about the top three mistakes people make in dating.

Wow.

Well, number one, I think it's about, um, I think, I think we're taught that, uh, our, you know, we're sold a bill of goods by, uh, advertising that a date should look a certain way, dress a certain way, act a certain way, and everybody's looking for the same person that looks and acts and behaves a certain way and owns certain things.

And that if the person meets that criteria, what I was taught was that you should go after them.

But if you go after someone who just has that exterior thing, how do you know that they're a good match for you? You don't.

So that's the number one thing I think is, I mean, it sounds like something everybody knows, not to focus too much on the exterior but it's actually quite deep because i think we tend to think that that kind of person is going to be our our soul mate number two i think the biggest mistake we make is uh we think that being in the friend zone is a bad thing and in tantra we're like why would you want to have sex with anybody that you're not friends with that sounds kind of creepy to have sex with someone you're not really close and friendly with.

So there's a famous relationship psychologist called John Gottman.

Well, I know you talk a lot about conscious touch, so explain to the listeners the definition of conscious touch.