Um, what has that work taught you about what actually gets passed down beyond the assets?

Well, I have seen, I've seen some good things past and some negative things past.

Sometimes the families that I have observed that have good things passed down.

There's a lot of emotional tension around passing things down to the next generation.

And there are sometimes secrets that come out.

There are also some wonderful finds and discoveries that come out where you're learning, oh, this person left me that.

They must have really loved me.

uh carol just some quick action steps in terms of you know people who are out there right what can they take away in terms of being prepared uh whether it's you know assets protection and then protecting for the the next generation