Yeah.

You know, God needed me to go through that hard so that I could trust in him more and like deepen my faith with him.

Yes.

And that was, I believe, one of the reasons why it didn't go the way I thought it would.

And so, you know, that type of learning, that type of progress, that type of growth, a lot of times doesn't happen until you've gone through the fiery furnace of refinement.

And so, you know, now I look back and when a trial and a challenge happens, like being divorced, you know, two years ago, I had to go through that process.

And it's something I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy to have to go through.

So what and when it's all said and done, what do you hope, you know, comes of all this?

It

comes out every Sunday afternoon as the concept for families to read the email, to be able to use that information in the email with their families to set the next weekend right.

The concept of this last weekend was communication and what questions to ask when you're trying to have a conversation with people.

So if I'll just reiterate what's in the newsletter, the three places that I think are the easiest conversation points with any human being, it doesn't matter where you are, is you just ask a very basic initial question and then you drill down deeper and you can go on for hours.

So the simple question of like, where are you from? That seems like a one word answer.

Oh, I'm from Utah.

And then it's done.

going.

Yeah.

Every hundred days that they do on Duolingo as a streak.

Okay.

I pay them $50.

And so I literally took this morning.

Here she is.

You're probably not going to be able to see this.

Yeah.

What did you do? So I just

went to an apartment.

She went to her parents and it was, we were able to do week on week off.

And, you know, even, so if you have an amicable, if you can at least be amicable to a point, that nesting can be a beautiful thing for your kids.

Yeah.

And so I would highly recommend it if you can be amicable.

Now, a lot of divorce attorneys will never recommend it because you don't want to have interactions where the kids see negative conversations that you never want to incorporate.

each

I never watched that one, but I've heard

of it.

Yes.

And I know that there's different circumstances and everyone has to make their own choice and there's no judgment on my part.

That's one thing I've learned.

Honestly, pre-divorce, I hate to say this, but I did have a little bit of a lens of judgment.

Mm-hmm.

I