Just take only.

I think I experienced this the most.

Yeah.

for the longest time, I'm always attending events.

A lot.

Like in a week is, weekday also got, weekend also got.

One day three.

Totally

Oh, okay, okay.

That works out really well.

Right behind the house.

So she don't have to wake up so early because tadika starts later, right? So it's like, oh, then from then, you know, she had the youngest one for a month or so, I think almost two months.

Then she's like, you know, she's a bit lonely.

I think you bring the bigger one over.

So weekdays, now the weekdays, they stay with the in-laws.

think when I think I guess Brian when you went through what you went through when did your grief have to take the back seat and you had to like you know what my kids come first now was there a moment you like snapped into that