And how could a conversation like that look like?

Hmm depends on what you want to do or who you are, but like if you're in a partnership, for example It's like if you and I were dating So it could start by just like what is the experience that you want to have like what is the what is the sensation like what is the feeling that you want to have within this container because that is gonna that's gonna gauge for me like what version of of play I'm going to offer you and bring to you.

So if you say, um, I want to feel, uh, I want to feel sexy.

That's a different vibe than like, uh, I want to be playful.

Those are very different energetics.

I can do both.

Um, but it's, I'm going to bring a different side of myself depending on what, how you're wanting to feel and what you're wanting to get out of it.

Because