You know, how was that dynamic for you? I, it was very stressful, stressful for

me and stressful for him.

I also was not working.

So he was the sole provider and I had to lean virtually everything on him.

And I know that was very difficult on him.

It was very difficult on our relationship as well.

We were really, what is the word? I don't even want to say that we were necessarily more teammates, but We I guess I guess it's what we were.

So what does boundaries, I guess, would look like for you, you know, if you had to set boundaries with your in-laws or I don't know if your husband or you have siblings that are overbearing or not bearing enough, you know what I mean? But what did boundaries look like in those two postpartums you had?