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Brandon Hiltebeitel

Brandon Hiltebeitel

Old Jacksonville Campus Pastor at Grace Community Church; former HB Lead Pastor at Mariners Church and Discipleship Strategist at LifeWay Christian Resources.

Aug 6, 2026

8:36
So from both or one of those perspectives, what is one thing you think parents unintentionally do that makes church feel like an obligation instead of a joy?
8:43
Yeah.
8:44
I think the answer's the same either way, although perhaps there's more pressure when you're on a church staff.
8:50
But w- if a parent doesn't find joy in the church, it doesn't mean their kids can't, but I, I...
8:56
The best way for a, for a kid to love the church is to grow up with parents that l- truly love the church.
9:02
Like, if you see it as an obligation, it's gonna be a lot easier for you to pass that on to your kids.
9:07
You know, Jesus talks about where your treasure being, there your heart being.
11:33
When our kids inevitably see flaws in church leaders or church members or us, how do you want them to process that through the lens of the gospel?

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