... was Cara correct in that moment?

It's okay.

[laughs] Um, yeah, I think so.

Um, looking back, I, I definitely had a moment when I was standing up there and I was listening to what the officiant was saying and, you know, kinda like the, the, um, the, the, the depth of the commitment that I was about to make.

And there were things that he was talking about, you know, the vows of marriage and the stuff that you're taking in.

And, um, I, it really did hit me right in that moment that I hadn't really thought it all through very well.

And yet there I was standing up there.

Dress up in your lingerie.