Okay

... um, I realize that that is what patriarchy looks like to me, not the domineering, dismissive, condescending thing that we see every day in Nigeria or in Africa.

So being a, calling myself a patriarch is a mix of being nurturing, being le- being a leader, being disciplined and then-

Hot.

So yes, um, I enjoy physical degradation, but again, I just want to know where is your head at.

But again, you know that when sex becomes even more soulful and becomes more fluid, when everybody's in their head space, you know that sometimes you do some shit and it, and you're like, "Oh, we did that."