What are some of the things that caregivers and parents should think about in their own expectations or their family history or their history of attachment or their parenting styles that they should be thinking about when they're looking at parenting models?

Yes, I'm actually writing a book right now on this topic because you can't be trauma responsive and trauma informed and all those things and not look at your own history, not look at your own traumas.

And most of us have it.

It's not a shameful thing.

Like, unfortunately, in previous generations, there's a knowledge gap.

They didn't have access to all this information.

You know, psychology and mental health and healthy parenting and all the things they were just flying by the seat of their pants.

So when parents have started the process of self-work and understanding trauma and then moving into self-work and things like that, when they are looking for or when they encounter a parenting model, whether it's a course or a book or a parenting coach that they've exposed themselves to or an online program, what are some of the core questions that they should ask themselves about this model and if it's a good fit?