And so my question t- to you is, but what experience was life trying to create in you that you kept missing at that time? Because you were going through a lot, right? What was it that you were missing when you were creating this for everyone else? Does that make sense?

Yeah, no, it's, it's interesting, uh, and I think a lot of people fall into the trap.

We give so much to others.

With Ritz-Carlton, it was always over-delivering for our guests, for our clients, a- and often for each other.

But probably what was missing, it's, it's taking care of yourself and thinking, "What can I do to make sure that I'm over-delivering for myself?" I've never been asked that question, Mitchell, so very brilliant.

Um, that's something that I think I would be, w- I was missing, and it wasn't until the pandemic, and I'll, I'll share this with you.

Uh, I had a heart attack right before the pandemic, and there's a story that goes along prior to that which we can certainly weave in if appropriate.

Mm.