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Barnaby Griffiths
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Mar 2, 2026
Beating Speaking Anxiety: 7. I’m scared I’m not getting better
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6:24GeorgieHOST
Let's hear from Barnaby Griffiths, a speaking coach who has been offering us advice throughout this series.
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6:33Barnaby GriffithsGUEST
Well, it's a never-ending process, isn't it? And we know that it goes on and on and on.
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6:37Barnaby GriffithsGUEST
So we sh- we, we need to be very clear that we are progressing by noticing that we've improved week on week, month on month, and celebrating that and feeling good about ourselves, and saying, "Oh, I'm better than I was a month ago."
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7:10GeorgieHOST
And Barnaby suggests using video to recognize how far you've come.
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7:17Barnaby GriffithsGUEST
If you record yourself a few times a week or once a week, and you compare gradually how you're improving, you should celebrate that progress because it might not be a huge difference, but I always compare it to learning a musical instrument.
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7:31Barnaby GriffithsGUEST
These things, it, it takes a long time to learn a musical instrument competently.
Beating Speaking Anxiety: 1. I’m scared of making mistakes
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9:07GeorgieHOST
But is there anything we can do practically to help get rid of this fear?
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9:12Barnaby GriffithsGUEST
It isn't about perfection, and it isn't about necessarily being very fluent.
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9:35GeorgieHOST
So embrace your mistakes.
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9:44Barnaby GriffithsGUEST
Allow pauses and silence within your communication, and learn to correct yourself, and also introduce elements such as humor, and smile and, and laugh when things go wrong, and say, "Oh, I didn't mean to say that," and, and, and have phrases like, "Let me rephrase that," or, "I need to say that again," and, and, and be vulnerable.