So tell us about a time in your life where you wish you had more mental strength.

Well, certainly when I was a child, when I was a teenager, and when I was with my late husband and something terrible happened to him.

He was a very successful attorney in Los Angeles.

And there was a hit put on his life.

And some people cut his neck from ear to ear, stabbed him in the chest and left him to die.

And he didn't die.

I actually saved his life.

So talk about how trauma, both little trauma, like church trauma or big trauma impacts us sexually.