Exactly the words Quinetta had used to describe herself back then.

Okay, let's, let's explain this as a young dope first.

Okay, so you're in the military.

Yeah, you're not making much money, and you gotta stay in the, the dorms or the barracks.

So somebody said, "Hey, I wanna marry you." And you, you've been girlfriend and boyfriend, and you say, "Well, let me weigh the odds." So you don't have to stay in the dorms, and you get housing allowance and all this other stuff.

And I was like, "Oh, well, that sounds pretty good." And so that's what I pretty much did.

Quinetta and Tony, it's fair to say, did not have great conflict management skills.

I had encounters with, uh, Quinetta.