That's really tough

... an operation.

Yeah.

And then I remember going to the other hospital, having the surgery, and then one of the doctors, um, I'll never forget this moment, and actually unfortunately, the person I'm talking about has actually passed away since then.

She came to me in the recovery, um, area of the theater, and, um, sorry.

She said to me, she said, "Anita, you need to have some time off work now." And I said, "Oh, I'm gonna be fine.

I'm gonna be fine." And she said, "No, no, you need, you need to have some time off." And she said, "I'm gonna give you a sick note." So I just said, "Yeah, okay, whatever." And she gave me a sick note for two weeks, and I used the entire two weeks, and I spent the whole two weeks feeling like I had probably Not really helped people as much as I could've done when they were going through a pregnancy loss

And dads.