That's right.

Okay.

So, Jeremy, I'm known as a love doctor.

So you see me walking down the road holding hands with my wife.

Then all of a sudden you see me throwing her to the ground.

and you think hang on a minute he's the love doctor what he's not a nice guy he's totally inauthentic he's a cheat he's a liar all that stuff and then you come up to him say hey i saw what you did and i said oh thank you you know it's a one of the greatest ex experiences of my life and you said what are you talking about you threw your wife to the floor I said, yeah, I would do it every single time.

And you think, this guy's getting worse.

i think that's the you know the the depth of love is experiencing that life together whether it's good or bad um so what's your your counseling for um handling the hurt that comes with being open to somebody else

Right

... for, you know, something happening, a delay or a glitch.

So be on time, doing what you say you're going to do and do it, not complain, not say bad words about other people, be the best version of you, be honest, be truthful.

That's what integrity is.

The second thing that people need to look for is find someone that's loving, not just to you, but to everybody, and not transactionally, not trying to get something by being something or being someone.

And the third one is are they healthy emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, and financially? These are the three criteria.

Now, if you're looking for that in another person, you have to align with that, too.

The US maybe has different definitions of this than other places in the world, but you know, when you look at men and women today, they can both have elements of masculinity and femininity, but how would you define a healthy masculinity and healthy femininity in today's world?

Anil, go ahead.

Thank you, Leanne.

My name is Neil Gupta, the internationally known as the Love Doctor.

I'm on a mission to help people overcome the struggles that they face in their relationships, in themselves, forgiveness, letting go, so that they can lead a richer, fuller, happier life.

In 2008, I had a very difficult time and I was on the verge of suicide.

And it was a very tough time and I thought I might be a good time to tell my wife.

So I told her and she said, I knew something was wrong.

your

yes

and they get used to that attention then they they misdiagnose that attention for love you know so you know we we as human beings we're meaning making machines we we do something we experience something and we make it mean something my wife didn't return my call i could make it mean she doesn't love me she doesn't honor me she doesn't respect me all that happened was she didn't call me back So, you know, forgiveness is a great muscle and it can be achieved in, I've done a forgiveness exercise in 12 minutes, but it's like preparing food.

You have to prepare the food first, then you do the forgiveness exercise and then it comes out really well.

So really, you know, we have to break down what, The big problem is, say, for example, you know, my mum abandoned me.

You know, if you have this issue and then ask what happened.

And they said, oh, she abandoned me.

I said, what actually happened? What actually happened was my mum gave me up to an orphanage.

So the feeling we're looking for is a feeling of fulfillment.

And you share your own experiences with people during that time?

Yeah.

So for example, Today's August the 25th.

A year ago, my happiness score was 729.

At 8.30 a.m., at 9.05 or 9.10 a.m., my happiness score went down to one.

So something big and drastic happened.

I was playing pickleball.

So you're kind of talking about being awakened and not being awakened, but being more aware of things going on and And kind of touching on that, I'd like to talk a little bit about what are some of the most commonly overlooked relationship red flags and why we ignore those even when we sense that those things aren't right.

How do you, you know, approach practicing? Like, what do you do?

So I go out and speak.

I'm not a trained speaker.

uh but you have to start so i started with me in the mirror one person five people and you just have to practice practice practice and as you get more comfortable you you get a download of so much energy so much joy so much content so much clarity that it's just like driving a car when you're first driving you're very nervous But eventually you become unconsciously competent, meaning you'll drive for an hour and think, oh, I can't remember where I went because you're so good at it.

That's the place you want to get to.

And the only way to do that is to to do to be and to get into that state where you're doing things repetitively.

You know, people say.

And they're staying in because it's better than being single, I guess.

Firstly, for your point of view, how did you really start to transform that feeling you had for you, build your own self-worth, and then how that then translates into relationships you have with other people?

So I started doing these events and I started serving people.

What I noticed was when I served another human being, all the pain and suffering disappeared.

And I thought, oh, that's interesting.

So I kept on doing that.

I spoke in 18 countries, eight languages, four continents, TEDx, Fox News, Sky TV, ABC, NBC, iHeartRadio, Harvard.

millionaires, billionaires, all sorts of people.

What should it be? What is that rate? It's

Is that true?

Yeah, absolutely.

And, you know, it's not difficult to do it.

It's simple, but it's not easy, but it's not difficult.

It's just a matter of asking yourself, what is going to be the best thing for my health, my wealth, my happiness, my joy? And what tools do I need? What languaging do I need to change? So a lot of the problems I'm seeing, James, is that a lot of kids are enabled and entitled.

And I'll tell you why that happens.

James, you've been through adversity.

And so so at what at what age group or age level do you start that? The younger, the better or what? Well, I'll

Yeah.

In your lifetime, how many pumps, how many motors, how many cars have broken down? But your heart has always continued.

Be grateful for things, your hands, your heart, your liver, your kidneys, your eyes, your brain.

You are a walking miracle.

There are no way that you could be reproduced.

And the third G, you have to grow emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally, and financially.

So on August the 25th, 2025, my happiness score was 729.

Why do relationships have such a poor success rate, is the question.

Yes.

You know, "Whatever you want, I'm here to serve you." Then it becomes 80/20, 70/30, 50/50.

"Oh, she didn't do that for me, I'm not gonna do that," or, "He didn't do that, I'm not gonna do that." And that's when the problem arises.

But if you make your partner your number one priority, they will never leave you.

So we've become very transactional and we get very egocentric.

What we have to do is give.

Focus on other people.

Okay.

Or do you actually like, "Well, it looks like Jeffrey's just sold, you know, a million shares, and so like we're just gonna be depressed for a while." Like how, how much of it is a guessing game versus like you know what's going on?

Great question, and I think some executives care and some executives don't.

So just in talking to like IR friends, you know, there is oftentimes the question you get about like, "Boy, why is the stock up or down today?" You know, if your stock is plus or minus 5%, the likelihood of you getting a question about like what's going on with the stock today for a lot of people is pretty high.

And usually the answer is like, "I don't know." Usually.

But there could be some catalyst.

It could be an upgrade or a downgrade.

It could be some market activity, a peer has a product launch or something that is like pretty logical for it.

Isn't it supposed to be the opposite of the US dollar?