So for the woman who suspects that she's lost herself but she's not sure, what are signs? What would, might somebody say to you?

It's usually evident.

You can usually tell when you've lost yourself or you just don't know who you are based on, the first sign for me is your environment.

What does your environment look like? You can usually tell where you are mentally by your environment.

What does your car look like? What does your room look like? What does your closet look like? You know, how are you showing up? Are you combing your hair? Are you taking a shower? Are you putting on clothes? Are you putting on your makeup? What does your appearance look like? Those are usually tell-tell signs to know if you've lost yourself or you're on the brink of losing yourself because it shows up in how we present ourselves.

That's usually the first sign.

The second sign is usually that inner dialogue.

Yeah