And I think that's the actual balance that people want to talk about.

Well, and I think you have to actually know your person.

Like, like it's so, there's so many people like, okay, you date and you think you know your person and.

All of this.

And then people start having problems.

And then, you know, a lot of marriages end or whatever.

Well, they probably didn't really know their person.

Which goes back to the independence.