What happened next?

Next, I was on a journey of singledom.

And I think I kept waiting for the moment I was gonna crash out and have a spiral, but I never really had that.

And so for the next two years, I just invested in my community.

I hosted poker nights.

I started hosting more parties.

I...

Mm.

Yeah.

I think from a, a- an anxious lens though, as someone who gets more invested more easily, um, I think the biggest mistake people make, who are anxious at least, uh, is spending more, too much time on the wrong person.

So the biggest advice I can give, uh, to Hinge goers and dating people overall is, like, don't waste any second longer on the wrong person than you have to.

End it as soon as you see something that isn't compatible with you.

And, uh, for me, I was going into it as, like, husband until proven guilty.

Like, everyone could be my husband until they were proven guilty, and the second they were proven guilty, they were out.

Yeah.

And I think the s- there's a difficult thing about meeting someone younger who, where you might actually end up being compatible enough to get married, but because the momentum is kind of lost early on.