So Jen, Jen inspired you to look for something better that made you

happier.

Yes, she did.

And it's interesting because she is also very security minded.

Like she likes the idea that I had a job and a salary and so forth, but she saw I was miserable.

And she said, look, you need to, no one is going to come to save you.

You need to figure this out yourself.

And then what were the biggest moments? mindset shifts that you had to do or did in order to keep going, overcome them and succeed?