So then did things move sort of quickly after that? Like how did your personal life progress with him?

I moved in with him.

We actually, funny enough, we happened to like live across the bridge from each other our entire lives.

Like there's a little bridge in our neighborhood.

And it was like Romeo and Juliet.

I was never allowed to cross that side of the bridge.

He was never allowed to cross this side.

And how do you know when it's time to say this is not it?