physically painful to us.

And what happens is, is we don't want to feel pain.

And so our body responds and it gets flooded with all kinds of chemicals and we get angry and anger actually feels good.

The chemicals that are poured out into our body actually feel good.

And we'd much rather feel good than feel pain.

And so what happens is, as we want that, as we, our bodies learn to respond in that way can actually be difficult to kind of come off of that.

And so what's happening in those moments is we're going into fight or flight.

I'll

Amy, do you have anything to add? I just am thinking about even being an organized person.

And man, I had to grow in that huge when I got started.

You know, you get all these books, you get all these crafts.

And then it's just like, where do you put all this stuff? And those were not skills that came easy to me when my kids were little.

It felt like a lot, but there is just so much.

There's just a large arc for growth when you're in it together.

And oftentimes when I'm coaching a family that's wondering, are we doing okay? I remember asking that, am I doing okay? How are we going? And I say, what is it that you need? Right.

past just the curriculum.