it's like

telling funny stories about what some guy said or what some guy did um but also my kids are young so I will probably I know myself very well I would never move a man in with my kids probably ever like I don't My mom, after my dad died, she did not date again.

And I remember she dated one guy right at the beginning.

And he said something inappropriate to me.

And I told my mom.

And that was it.

She was single for 30 years.

if you imagine a woman listening to this that is not quite there yet you know really debilitated with where they're at um maybe not having a lot of hope and faith about their future and what's to come what would you love to leave them with