But that's not the same thing as being happy.

It, it's not, and, and I think there was a class that I would put back in high school or in college, like in business school.

I really think there's something about like the definition of happiness and, and joy and fulfillment too, right? And kinda circling back to the conversation about what did I want my kids to say when I pass away, I've also re-thought about legacy, 'cause I think often people will think about legacy, like the capital L, the tombstone leg- legacy.

And really legacy is lowercase L. It's the tiny little things that you do every single day and the impact that you have on people, and the impact that we have on people you might not even understand or know the impact that you've had on someone.

Like, someone listening to us talk today on your podcast, we might touch someone's life, and you and I might never know how we helped them, but I think that's really cool.

And that's part of like my brand now and my definition of happiness, because Kevin, what I want more than anything when I pass away...

And I promise I'm not morbid.

You could have the, the solution for them, like bake time into your day to prioritize yourself, be more intentional, like, just have quiet time, but how do you get them to, like, actually make the shift?