I call it floating.

Exactly.

So you have nowhere to call it, you have nothing about it.

And so it goes far beyond language.

Let's talk about, for instance, our cousins, even in the way we relate to our names.

when you lose your language you lose those old grandmama's flavors and that is why you see today that most of us cannot boast of grandmama's flavors anymore because you can't learn it you have how do you learn something you're already disconnected now we are more of trying so hard and there is something about when you try hard is that you'll never completely become When you try to be somebody else, if I want to answer, leave Amarachi and answer Chigoki, I can never really completely be Chigoki, right? So because my identity has been built around Amaraki.

So when a language disappears, what disappears is not just the vocabulary, the words.

My mom especially, right? But what was the accountability system like? How do we hold people accountable when they commit certain insolence, like abortion? How do we hold them accountable?