Like, so how do you balance the things that are not regular everyday costs?

Yeah.

So two things.

The first thing I always tell people is there's very few things in life that are unexpected.

We just didn't plan for them because I think a lot of times we categorize vet bills or tires or clothes as unexpected.

And it's not like if you own a car.

I have spent so much money.

own reality wow what a concept living in your own life yeah so if there is a mom listening who because they always say like one of the number one things that couples argue and fight over is finances how can people navigate that but also prevent that becoming a major issue in a marriage