And are they using the, are they using the tentacle and the s- froggy thing?

They're, they're mostly using ...

Uh, there's a company called Tenga, so it's more Tenga than tentacle.

There has been a big push by companies recently to try and open people's minds and challenge that stigma and say, it- men should be, straight men included, should be allowed to e- explore their bodies and experiment with different types of sensations just as much as women should.

Um, it's gradually, I think, becoming less verboten, less forbidden, and less considered that a man who has a toy is either a massive pervert who's got a basement full of whips and chains, and God knows what, or is a sad loner who can't get a real girlfriend, so who needs a fake vagina.

Yes

... what brings you pleasure, then how can you find out and then communicate that? So let's take the first question to begin with.

Um, I think there are really kind, inviting ways that you can suggest changing sex without necessarily pointing, ma- making it a criticism or pointing out that you didn't like something last time.