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Alexander Koppelman

Alexander Koppelman

Co-founder and CEO of the Children's Arts Guild in New York, author of "For Real: Helping Children Remain Their Authentic Selves in a Limiting World."

Sep 17, 2026

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you know, and that's it.
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I think, for men that we, intergenerationally, we don't have a male presence.
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You know, the closest for me was my great-grandfather, who lived in another city, and an older neighbor who kind of took care of me for a little while after school.
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So in my mid-20s, I was completely lost.
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I had no relationship to myself, didn't know how to be in relationship with other people.
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And the thing that I realized is that I had no male friends.
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Something seemed wrong about that and, you know, didn't feel good to me.

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So how did you, what steps apart from going and looking for, um, help, what steps did you take to overcome that and where did it lead you to?
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kind of
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complicated in many ways because There were the truths that were out in, you know, shaping the system that you were supposed to espouse.
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So how the country wanted to see itself, how the people wanted to see themselves, how, you know, the influence of the government.
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And that was just dominant in everything.
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And then there were the private truths that you learned were whispered at home that were 180 degrees different, the big truths.
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And as a child, trying to understand how to navigate that could be really tricky.
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You know, I'll give you an example.
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and the

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