The performance God, are we measuring up? The God of judgment? The God who shows partiality? Other concepts could include God being dead, like Niche, overpowering, explosive, a liar, materialistic, preoccupied, or as physically or verbally abusive.

So I was watching...

I lived in Nigeria for four years until I was seven with my dad, my mum, and younger brother.

I never saw any affection between my parents, and there were no displays of any type of emotion.

My father would be described as an absent father.

He worked hard to supply the financial needs of the family.

He would come to watch us play sports, but there was no emotional support or affection shown.

And you can go to God and ask him for help with that.