Sí.

Muy a menudo, cuando las personas dicen que quieren atraer a una persona específica a su vida, lo que están haciendo subconscientemente es intentar atraer un patrón específico a su vida.

Y ahí es donde las cosas se confunden, porque esa persona es representativa de un patrón.

Y si hay un patrón no resuelto del pasado, estás tratando de recuperarlo.

La energía de esperar y la energía de querer es una energía y una forma de intentar manipular la realidad para que sea diferente y así sentirte diferente por dentro.

En su lugar, concéntrate en ser la versión de ti, que es esa versión apasionada de ti.

Concéntrate en serlo porque es quien eliges ser, no por lo que te dará.

Ánimo.

Mm-hmm.

It was a pattern where I would catch myself feeling like other people's tension was something that I had to mitigate in order to feel safe.

And part of it, I think, was just growing up having an, uh, like, a certain dynamic as a kid with a, uh, ex-stepmom in my life that was controlling.

There was an energy where I had to please in order to feel safe.

I had to, um, that was my mechanism as a kid.

So what happens is now as an adult, there's times where I'd find myself in that pattern and catch myself and then recognize that to be in that pattern is not magnetic because it's literally a survival strategy that also-

Yes.

So the belief was that I must please mom and dad, because if I please mom and dad, they will be okay with me.

Mm-hmm.

So when you think of anything that you've done, you know, you know when you're speaking on stage in front of, like, thousands of people, when you make it about them and you're okay if you mess up or you say um or uh because you know you're being authentic and it's not about you, it's about them, something greater flows through.

So it's about remembering also the analogy similar, can you make a plant grow? And when you really think about that, when you think of people, it's like, "Well, I, I can manifest, so I can manifest the plant to grow faster." And it's like, well, you can set up the conditions for the plant to grow.

You can put it in the sun.

You can water it, but what makes the plant actually grow? God does that.

It, its natural intelligence does that.

And the challenge in manifestation, I think, for many of us that learn, it's almost like there's a certain stage of awareness you get to when you learn that there's a correlation between what you think and what you experience, and that's when it's the empowerment phase, right? It's like, "I'm gonna create my own reality.

Cheer.