Jul 8, 2026 · 18 min · 11 segments
When does self-improvement actually stop improving us? This week, I reflect on the shift that can happen when ‘living our best lives’ begins to feel like an obligation rather than an invitation. I…
James SweetmanHost
Now, of course, it could be just a reflection of my stage of life that's very much rooted in fulfillment rather than achievement.
If I take a step back and look at the broader media landscape, have you noticed how almost every message we consume today is either designed to make us fearful or encourages us to become more? Do this, buy this, subscribe to this, and you'll be healthier, happier, more productive, or even more mindful and spiritual.
There are so-called hacks for optimizing your morning routine, improving your sleep, boosting your resilience, finding your purpose, healing your inner child, raising your vibration and manifesting abundance.
I'm part of this industry and I am or certainly was a happy consumer and advocate of it.
Estimates suggest that global self-improvement, the industry is worth in the region of $50 billion a year and is projected to grow to close to $90 billion within the next 10 years.
Perhaps the issue I have with the industry is that it reinforces a subtle message that who you are today isn't quite enough.
Yet if every week someone tells us there's another habit to build, another blind spot to uncover, or another part of ourselves that needs work, it's easy to conclude that we're somehow permanently unfinished.
A phrase that has stayed with me since I first heard it probably 40 years ago is, don't die with your music still inside you.
It encourages us to live courageously, to express ourselves, to contribute and to create.
Now, of course, it could be just a reflection of my stage of life that's very much rooted in fulfillment rather than achievement.
If I take a step back and look at the broader media landscape, have you noticed how almost every message we consume today is either designed to make us fearful or encourages us to become more? Do this, buy this, subscribe to this, and you'll be healthier, happier, more productive, or even more mindful and spiritual.
There are so-called hacks for optimizing your morning routine, improving your sleep, boosting your resilience, finding your purpose, healing your inner child, raising your vibration and manifesting abundance.
I'm part of this industry and I am or certainly was a happy consumer and advocate of it.
Estimates suggest that global self-improvement, the industry is worth in the region of $50 billion a year and is projected to grow to close to $90 billion within the next 10 years.
Perhaps the issue I have with the industry is that it reinforces a subtle message that who you are today isn't quite enough.
Yet if every week someone tells us there's another habit to build, another blind spot to uncover, or another part of ourselves that needs work, it's easy to conclude that we're somehow permanently unfinished.
A phrase that has stayed with me since I first heard it probably 40 years ago is, don't die with your music still inside you.
It encourages us to live courageously, to express ourselves, to contribute and to create.
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