Alone During the NICU Crisis
Some parents face moments no family should
Aug 27, 2026 · 58 min · 15 segments
Send us Fan Mail What is it really like growing up and living in a firefighter family? In this special **Wind The Q family roundtable**, Derick…
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So to Mindy, what's it like being the person who has to absorb those changes at home? And this has happened.

Like I remember we got deployed to Dade County years ago to go to, I had some wildfires
up there.

And there's been other times that I've had to go in and we get deployed to go somewhere.

What's it like for you having to, in that immediate moment, change everything to compensate for that?
That's not been this big of an issue for me because us being at home and being homeschooled and our schedules are very flexible.
So that's not really bothered me as much as you being home for your 48, but you're not home.
Yeah.
You're still on your phone.
You're still sending emails.
You're still being called, text, that kind of stuff.
I like when you come home to be home, to lay it down and be present with your children and

Was there ever a time you were really disappointed because the fire department changed our plans?
I mean, there probably was, but off the top of my head, I can't remember.
Okay.
Yeah, I don't remember off the top of my head an exact event.
I feel like more than less of the time it's going to, like, schedule something and they're like, oh, Dad's not there, we gotta change it.
And it's just finding a day we're all so busy that we can all be there.

So to Mindy, what's it like being the person who has to absorb those changes at home? And this has happened.

Like I remember we got deployed to Dade County years ago to go to, I had some wildfires
up there.

And there's been other times that I've had to go in and we get deployed to go somewhere.

What's it like for you having to, in that immediate moment, change everything to compensate for that?
That's not been this big of an issue for me because us being at home and being homeschooled and our schedules are very flexible.
So that's not really bothered me as much as you being home for your 48, but you're not home.
Yeah.
You're still on your phone.
You're still sending emails.
You're still being called, text, that kind of stuff.
I like when you come home to be home, to lay it down and be present with your children and

Was there ever a time you were really disappointed because the fire department changed our plans?
I mean, there probably was, but off the top of my head, I can't remember.
Okay.
Yeah, I don't remember off the top of my head an exact event.
I feel like more than less of the time it's going to, like, schedule something and they're like, oh, Dad's not there, we gotta change it.
And it's just finding a day we're all so busy that we can all be there.
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