You Don’t Need the Perfect Words to Be a Confident Man #443

So what I want to say about confidence and the reason why I want to start off with Confidence.

This is a word I hear over and over and over when you guys talk to me and you tell me how you want to feel in your sex life and in your relationship.

Confidence is a key word.

And what I, what I also see time and time again with men, especially is not wanting to say the wrong thing and then have things become worse.

So there's a holding back.

You hold back saying the thing you think might trigger her.

You hold back saying the thing you think might embarrass you.

You hold back sharing what you really want in your sex life, in your relationship.

And you hold back out of fear that you might come across like a weaker man or like you should know this or you just avoid it because it's uncomfortable and you want to feel comfortable.

So you don't say it.

You hold back.

But listen to me.

You are not perfect.

And that is okay.

I'm not perfect.

And that is okay.

Your relationship will never be perfect.

Your sex life will never be perfect.

And you are not supposed to have all the answers.

You are not supposed to say the perfect thing 100% of the time.

But you need to try.

Because that's the only way you can get where you want to go.

And this is a lesson for myself right now too.

So I'm right there with you.

I know how it can feel sometimes to hold back because you're like, oh, that probably won't work.