Stop Playing It Safe With Her #439

You feel awkward or uncomfortable in your sex life for whatever reason, right? There's many reasons why you could get to this point in your relationship where sex feels like, I don't know, like we have it, but never know when it's really going to happen.

Sometimes she's upset.

I don't initiate more.

I don't even initiate as much as I want.

And I know that sometimes if she rejects me, it really, really hurts because she does it in this way and blah, blah, blah.

Like, All this shit, right? Discomfort around sex.

And when you feel uncomfortable around your sex life, it makes you start acting uncomfortable in your relationship with your woman.

Because she obviously is the person you have sex with.

And whenever it comes to doing something intimate, saying something intimate, you take the safe route.

when you're uncomfortable in your sex life.

And I'm not just talking about taking the safe route during sex.

You start taking the safe route everywhere when it comes to communicating with her because you know that the most intimate time you have together feels awkward.

So now you're kind of walking on eggshells a little bit in this relationship, not feeling your swag, not feeling like the confident man you used to be in this relationship.

And you know it, right? But here's how it plays out.

And so many of you guys don't even realize you do this.

You start telling her things like, like when you get turned on by her in a moment, you think she looks fucking beautiful or super sexy.

That's what you feel and that's what you think in your head.

But then what you tell her is, you look good.

Or that dress looks great.

The safe route.

the safe route.

You're not thinking in your head that that dress is great.

You don't want that fucking dress.

You're looking at the woman.

It's not about the dress.