Jul 23, 2026 · 10 min · 6 segments
In this episode I'm breaking down 3 things that actually bring most women more pleasure during sex. 1️⃣ Getting her fully turned on before penetration 2️⃣ Trading the nonstop fast pace for…
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First one out of the three is making sure that she is turned on before penetration.
This is really important, guys, because you might think, oh, just because she initiated that she's just ready to go.
And you might think just because she says yes to sex, like her body's ready, and it's often not the case.
So you wanna just not go straight down to oral sex, which is what a lot of guys do.
They'll kiss for like two minutes and then go down on her and then have penetrative sex and then hopefully get an orgasm, and that's kinda like the linear way that a lot of men think about sex.
Instead of that, I want you to think about understanding what gets her really turned on.
If you can understand your woman specifically and what gets her feeling really relaxed and really nice and really connected to you, then you can start noticing what gets her body craving you.
'Cause you wanna wait for her to be showing physical signs or verbal signs that she's basically like, "Take me now." When a woman is at the take-me-now point, that's when sex feels best for her, right? Otherwise, it can feel boring because it's uncomfortable and it feels disconnected and it feels like you're doing something to her, not with her.
I mention this in a bunch of videos, only because most women really do enjoy kissing, and if it's not kissing, then it's just slowing things down a little bit.
This means, you know, running her-- You're running your hands down her whole body, and she's laying next to you.
Down her thigh and then back up, and it's like this gentle touch, right? Of you just rubbing against her.
It's a gentle squeeze, right? There's no hardcore squeezing her boobs or squeezing her ass or going straight in for this hardcore make out.
This-- That's where a lot of guys wanna initially take sex is to this immediate just, "Okay, it's on.
Let's go." And women more so appreciate the slow approach, at least going into it.
And of course, if a woman's like really horny and she's in the, a certain mood, she might be like, "Okay, go crazy," right? And that's fine too.
Maybe say some dirty talk to her or loving talk, depending on your relationship, where you guys are at.
First one out of the three is making sure that she is turned on before penetration.
This is really important, guys, because you might think, oh, just because she initiated that she's just ready to go.
And you might think just because she says yes to sex, like her body's ready, and it's often not the case.
So you wanna just not go straight down to oral sex, which is what a lot of guys do.
They'll kiss for like two minutes and then go down on her and then have penetrative sex and then hopefully get an orgasm, and that's kinda like the linear way that a lot of men think about sex.
Instead of that, I want you to think about understanding what gets her really turned on.
If you can understand your woman specifically and what gets her feeling really relaxed and really nice and really connected to you, then you can start noticing what gets her body craving you.
'Cause you wanna wait for her to be showing physical signs or verbal signs that she's basically like, "Take me now." When a woman is at the take-me-now point, that's when sex feels best for her, right? Otherwise, it can feel boring because it's uncomfortable and it feels disconnected and it feels like you're doing something to her, not with her.
I mention this in a bunch of videos, only because most women really do enjoy kissing, and if it's not kissing, then it's just slowing things down a little bit.
This means, you know, running her-- You're running your hands down her whole body, and she's laying next to you.
Down her thigh and then back up, and it's like this gentle touch, right? Of you just rubbing against her.
It's a gentle squeeze, right? There's no hardcore squeezing her boobs or squeezing her ass or going straight in for this hardcore make out.
This-- That's where a lot of guys wanna initially take sex is to this immediate just, "Okay, it's on.
Let's go." And women more so appreciate the slow approach, at least going into it.
And of course, if a woman's like really horny and she's in the, a certain mood, she might be like, "Okay, go crazy," right? And that's fine too.
Maybe say some dirty talk to her or loving talk, depending on your relationship, where you guys are at.
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