Summer House's Kyle and Amanda Part 2

We-

Yeah, before we began, I was talking about how I found you via the post you made about why Lindsay and Carl should not get back together, and I love that one.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Wait, what is the take-

I, I don't defend-

What is the take on that?

I just, I think that they're just two incompatible people.

Like, Lindsay needs someone who's more stern.

Carl needs someone more soft, and they were just never going to be that for each other.

It was like putting a square into a circle.

And I think they have that friendship, and that compatibility is there, but I think for the love and, like, what a marriage and that takes, I don't think they would've been compatible.

I think that they just, their personalities are too different.

Mm-hmm.

I think, you know, Carl...

I keep thinking about who I think Lindsay would be good with, but I have my thoughts on her and, like, just her attachment styles and the way she operates and her confrontational-

Mm-hmm

... manner.

You know, I think wrong guy for-

There's so much of, like, an attachment wound for her around, like-

For sure

... her mother and her family, and I think that shows up a lot in her relationships with men, and the expectation she holds of the role that men should play for her.

That can be kind of, like, opposite, right? She wants someone who is strong, but then she also wants someone who is available, and then those two things kind of contradict one another.

Mm-hmm.

And I don't think she recognizes that, that contradiction that can live within her.