Using Sex to Avoid Grief
Major life changes can reshape sexual connection
Sep 4, 2026 · 25 min · 14 segments
We have some big topics today! We have both been in the midst of some big life changes and that can affect the bedroom. So join us as we chat finding the spark again after life has thrown you some…
We have the Enchantress reverse.
And I think we've had the Enchantress before.
But I don't know if we've ever had her reverse.
Let's see here.
Okay.
I'm getting better at finding them a little bit faster.
I like that.
The enchantress or the magician, the magician exemplifies living aligned with the universe and following your purpose, your dharma, your true will.
As the enchantress, the card does not walk the path of asceticism, but instead embodies the idea that desires are sacred and a means of evolution and spiritual growth.
She uses sex appeal, wealth, and other material pursuits to fulfill the soul's vision.
In the nebulous expression of glamour and beauty that is the goddess of love, the enchantress is Kuru Kula, Dakini of magic, enchantment, and enlightenment.
In Tantric Buddhist tradition, the Dakinis are expressions of the erotic divine feminine in her role of wisdom keeper.
Dakinis aren't goddesses, but they can be worked with as deities and guides.
Kurukula uses your attachments and desires to magnetize you towards conditions and experiences that help you find and follow your purpose with sexuality, beauty, and love as part of a spiritual path.
Just as the Enchantress uses the wand, chalice, sword, and pentacle as his magical weapons of choice, Kurukula uses the tools of the erotic.
Remember to use your sex appeal, beauty, and that which you long for as a path to liberation and as an offering.
This power is within you and whatever you have drawn in is meant to be in your life as a teaching of the most sacred order.
When it shows up reversed, step out of your ego, ask for help if you need it, and return to the innocence of the fool.
Affirmation.
My desires guide me toward magic, wisdom, and blessings of erotic abundance.
Love it.
Awesome stuff.
We have the Enchantress reverse.
And I think we've had the Enchantress before.
But I don't know if we've ever had her reverse.
Let's see here.
Okay.
I'm getting better at finding them a little bit faster.
I like that.
The enchantress or the magician, the magician exemplifies living aligned with the universe and following your purpose, your dharma, your true will.
As the enchantress, the card does not walk the path of asceticism, but instead embodies the idea that desires are sacred and a means of evolution and spiritual growth.
She uses sex appeal, wealth, and other material pursuits to fulfill the soul's vision.
In the nebulous expression of glamour and beauty that is the goddess of love, the enchantress is Kuru Kula, Dakini of magic, enchantment, and enlightenment.
In Tantric Buddhist tradition, the Dakinis are expressions of the erotic divine feminine in her role of wisdom keeper.
Dakinis aren't goddesses, but they can be worked with as deities and guides.
Kurukula uses your attachments and desires to magnetize you towards conditions and experiences that help you find and follow your purpose with sexuality, beauty, and love as part of a spiritual path.
Just as the Enchantress uses the wand, chalice, sword, and pentacle as his magical weapons of choice, Kurukula uses the tools of the erotic.
Remember to use your sex appeal, beauty, and that which you long for as a path to liberation and as an offering.
This power is within you and whatever you have drawn in is meant to be in your life as a teaching of the most sacred order.
When it shows up reversed, step out of your ego, ask for help if you need it, and return to the innocence of the fool.
Affirmation.
My desires guide me toward magic, wisdom, and blessings of erotic abundance.
Love it.
Awesome stuff.
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