82 – You Gave It All To Provide Provide...And Stopped Pursuing Your Wife w/ Daniel Grose

You worked your ass off to provide for your family. You built the career. Paid the mortgage. Put food on the table. Took care of shit. And somewhere along the way, you stopped pursuing your wife. That’s exactly what happened to Daniel Grose. He went from pursuing Rachel relentlessly before they were married to working 60-hour weeks trying to build their future—while leaving her responsible for pursuing the emotional connection in their marriage. **Providing was never supposed to stop at the paycheck.** Your family needs you to provide and protect physically, yes. But also mentally. Emotionally. Spiritually. Your wife shouldn't have to drag you toward connection. Your children shouldn't have to monitor Dad's emotional temperature before deciding whether it's safe to approach him. And your kids shouldn't have to leave your home before somebody finally teaches them who they are and what they're capable of. **That's the work.** Daniel is joining me and eight other men for **PATRIARCH // September 11–13** — three days devoted to reviving fatherhood, family & moral leadership. General Admission // **$17** VIP + lifetime recordings // **$47** JOIN PATRIARCH NOW **VALUE FOR VALUE** No sponsors. No paid promotions. If this episode moved you, send **$5 on Venmo** @robertbilljr. Every contribution helps keep these conversations alive. Top supporters receive official Producer Credits on future episodes. **// Pursue her** x Rob