Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable Kids
Jul 14, 2026 · 15 min · 8 segments
**What if teaching your toddler to manage time isn't about timers at all, but about giving them the chance to make their own decisions?** In this episode, I explain why **toddlers are capable of…
Imagine that you have a two-and-a-half-year-old, a two-year-old, who is running around, and you have 20 minutes until dinner, and in your home, cleaning up of toys happens before eating.
You have an idea in your head of how long it will take to clean up that four-foot square radius of toys, and then you can go to dinner.
As an adult, you could go in and swoop those up, and you could have them cleaned up in two minutes to go to dinner.
So let's humanize the difference between our adult belief systems, perspectives, and experiences, and our little peoples.
[laughs] So you wanna give them lots of time to understand what the expectation is, and to choose to take action to meet the expectation and accomplish it.
So how are we gonna do this? 'Cause that's essentially what time management is, right? I know how much I have.
I know that I need to make a decision to take some action to complete a thing before the end of that time boundary.
Imagine that you have a two-and-a-half-year-old, a two-year-old, who is running around, and you have 20 minutes until dinner, and in your home, cleaning up of toys happens before eating.
You have an idea in your head of how long it will take to clean up that four-foot square radius of toys, and then you can go to dinner.
As an adult, you could go in and swoop those up, and you could have them cleaned up in two minutes to go to dinner.
So let's humanize the difference between our adult belief systems, perspectives, and experiences, and our little peoples.
[laughs] So you wanna give them lots of time to understand what the expectation is, and to choose to take action to meet the expectation and accomplish it.
So how are we gonna do this? 'Cause that's essentially what time management is, right? I know how much I have.
I know that I need to make a decision to take some action to complete a thing before the end of that time boundary.
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