Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable Kids
Sep 3, 2026 · 31 min · 10 segments
**What if you could hand off the endless mental checklist of family life and finally be more present with the people you love?** In this episode, Diliani Kahawala unpacks the **invisible mental load…
How does she keep you on task so that you can trust that you don't have to think about it again?
I mean, the first thing you will notice is that as soon as, you know, something comes through email or you've told her, you know, pay attention to these kinds of things from my WhatsApp, she'll start sending you.
Do you want me to add it to your task list? So those things she will send you as they're coming.
And I think that's one of the ways that she very quickly builds trust because you know that she's not dropping the ball, which is the worst thing ever, right? Like if your assistant drops the ball, you're like, that's like double work for me.
So if you have like, you know, maybe the school disco is coming up and you need to like buy tickets by X date, she'll like put that on your calendar.
Every day, you get a summary that is like, hey, here's what's coming up for you.
Maybe some people are like, I want to know the weather and what I should wear or what I should put the kids in.
Or I want you to include my meal of that day that we're going to make just so I know in the morning this is what I need to do.
Other parents do... like a lot of reminders everything from like remind me to take the cake out of the oven in 30 minutes to remind me to you know go see the cardiologist in like every three months like a variety of things.
So things like that, that You just want to hand off and know reliably that she will come back to you at the right moment.
That's where people get the most value out of this variety of AI, and Anna specifically.
How does she keep you on task so that you can trust that you don't have to think about it again?
I mean, the first thing you will notice is that as soon as, you know, something comes through email or you've told her, you know, pay attention to these kinds of things from my WhatsApp, she'll start sending you.
Do you want me to add it to your task list? So those things she will send you as they're coming.
And I think that's one of the ways that she very quickly builds trust because you know that she's not dropping the ball, which is the worst thing ever, right? Like if your assistant drops the ball, you're like, that's like double work for me.
So if you have like, you know, maybe the school disco is coming up and you need to like buy tickets by X date, she'll like put that on your calendar.
Every day, you get a summary that is like, hey, here's what's coming up for you.
Maybe some people are like, I want to know the weather and what I should wear or what I should put the kids in.
Or I want you to include my meal of that day that we're going to make just so I know in the morning this is what I need to do.
Other parents do... like a lot of reminders everything from like remind me to take the cake out of the oven in 30 minutes to remind me to you know go see the cardiologist in like every three months like a variety of things.
So things like that, that You just want to hand off and know reliably that she will come back to you at the right moment.
That's where people get the most value out of this variety of AI, and Anna specifically.
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