Episode 263 | 15 Days After Juneteenth

Yo.

What's up, dog?

How you making, bro?

I'm good.

Yo, I want to get this out of the way early.

Yeah.

What's self-defense to you?

If I feel like my life is in danger, I got a right to take yours.

Whether you armed or not.

I don't know if you got a knife or a fucking screwdriver.

You can have anything on you.

If you charge toward me and I got a gun, most likely you're going to get shot if I get to that bitch fast enough.

If it ain't already out.

I got it.

Cause I mean, right now it seemed like America got thing misconstrued.

Right.

Like anytime somebody puts their hands on you or, or charges you or makes you feel threatened, they can't dictate how you react.

Right.

We saw with Carmelo Anthony, Austin Metcalf touched him and Carmelo reacted by stabbing him.

Right.

And everybody's saying that wasn't self defense is wrong.

And now in Florida, a woman, I don't know her name, but in a man, they were arguing over a parking spot.

Right.

And the guy heated, and he wound up trying to block the parking spot, but she wound up wiggling past and still getting in there.

Right.

Went to do her little whatever.

You know, they're the eyewitnesses.

The eyewitness told this lady, the guy's name is Bart DeGillamou.

Well, I can't say his last name.

It's long and crazy.

But it's Bart DeGillamou.

She told the lady, he's waiting for you.

And he was.

So he started like kind of stalking her like a predator, just kind of following her.

And she walked around a car and he's still following her.

So she wound up getting in her car, getting a handgun, and holding it and pointing it at him.

And she told him repeatedly, back up, back up.

Same as when those witnesses told Carmelo Anthony to get out of that tent several times.

Right.

She told him back up several times.

He still went at her.

Like he didn't lunge at her, but he was still walking towards her.

I'm very smart.

I am a doctor, but I'm not a rocket scientist.

If I see somebody pointing a gun at me, I'm going to retreat.

I'm not going to pursue.

That's just what I'm going to do.

If I see a gun pointed at me.

But I guess he was entitled.

He thought he wasn't going to do nothing.

He thought his privilege was going to save him.

But guess what he's doing right now? He's

going to miss everybody.

Right now he's playing second with Austin

Metcalf.

Everybody.

You at the crossroads.

How you feel about that shoot, bro? It was justified.

Like, bro, like, you a girl.

Like, you not 19.

I see a 19-year-old losing it cool because your fucking frontal lobe still developed.

You an old-ass man, bro.

Yeah, you mad about the parking spot, nigga.

Okay, you lost it.

Move.

Be mad about that shit in another parking spot.

Like, you escalating shit over a parking spot and you following behind somebody in the parking lot is dangerous because they don't know what you got.

She done went and shopped and came back.

She don't know if you went to your car, got whatever you got in your shit, and you waiting on her to come out so you can take her life.

She did exactly what anybody else was trying to do.

If you're waiting on somebody, I'm going to

assume you're there for violence.

Yeah, you're there for violence.

Why would you wait on me? To have a conversation?

You ain't waiting.

Nobody ain't waiting in a hot-ass Florida parking lot to have a conversation about a parking lot.

And it was hot outside.

We already know what the heat do, people.

It make them even more mad.

I'm mad not thinking about the heat outside.

Exactly.

She did exactly what any normal sane person who was armed would have did.

They defended themselves.

Because I'm not going to wait for you to take my life.

I'm not going to wait for you to do whatever you do first and then defend myself so the police can be like, well, it was justified.

He shot first.

Or he stabbed her first so she shot him.

No, I'm not waiting for you to violence to be ensued on me.

Right.

No, I'm not going to be a victim so we can both be in the hospital and see which one of us is going to make it.

That's the whole purpose of being armed.

If somebody threatens you in a violent manner, you've got a right to defend yourself.

Well, that's the biggest disconnect with this country.

Black residents and white residents on different sides of the spectrum.

For some reason, most of the comments I'm reading about black people are saying it's justified.

He was pursuing her.

And white people was like, her life wasn't in danger.

How would you know? If I had an argument with somebody and they start approaching me...

We're not on good terms.

We just had an argument.

We just had a heated argument.

Now you're approaching me.

So naturally, my defense mechanism is going to be let's attack because they're going to result in violence.

In my life, I'm 40 years old.

When I had an argument with somebody, I approached them on some kumbaya type stuff.

I approached them on some let's get dangerous, duck wing, duck type stuff.

I want to say that.

Let's get dangerous.

And especially if you exchange words with somebody and you leave and go somewhere else and then somebody comes like, hey, that person you just argued with, they're outside waiting on you.

I don't know where they're from, but we're from.

If somebody says somebody's outside waiting on me and we just exchange words, I'm assuming they went and got a gun.

A basketball game, whatever the fuck it was, if somebody says, oh, somebody's outside waiting on you to come out.

You ain't going to call the police or you're going to meet violence with violence.

That's the only two things you can do.

Because if you go out there with someone, it ain't that serious.

But you might get yourself hurt.

No.

I just got common sense.

Right.

When I see a gun, I run.

And I don't run to the gun.

I run away from the gun.

That nigga crazy.

Gun.

I hear a zombie.

I'm not lying, bro.

I'm kind of happy you got shot.

I am too.

And I want us to start shooting and inflicting more violence.

Say, bro, y'all not going to learn until y'all learn.

Exactly.

You're right.

Y'all keep playing with us and shit, playing in our faces, saying y'all can do whatever.

Because when we do report y'all to the police, y'all get off.

That's why y'all think y'all got the leeway to do whatever.

So we got to start popping y'all.

Exactly, because if she would have called the police, what they would have did? They would have just told everybody to leave.

And say she drive off, now he following behind her in his car because he just don't want to let this shit go.

The police really, if you get into, the police, they're not going to do nothing until somebody get hurt.

That's factual.

Right.

Especially because that's a private parking lot.

All they're going to do is say, we can't arrest nobody here.

Y'all got to just leave and calm down and go home.

They're not going to be aggressive toward him, which they should have, and intimidate him to leave her alone because he's harassing her over a parking spot that he didn't get.

He just mad because he didn't get the spot.

And we forgetting the dynamic.

This is a man and a woman.

Man and a

woman, yes.

Like, it's a man.

No man should approach a woman in an aggressive manner.

Because if they do, I'm going to assume they did an attack.

Right.

Like, bro.

These power dynamics don't exist.

That's what people need to stop doing.

Exactly.

I ain't here to tell nobody they can't be mad about shit.

But be mad and level-headed.

Go park somewhere.

Yeah, she stole your parking spot.

I had people do that shit to me.

You're a pussy.

But I ain't about to either go to jail or lose my life or kill somebody over a parking spot.

They got three million parking spots in the fucking Walmart parking lot.

And they got to move.

Shit.

Nigga never took a parking spot from me.

I'm

saying,

like, we both get there and the niggas speed up and get it.

Because we both get

there.

Hey, big dog, back up or I'm going to go your way.

You're going to be lost in Metcalf also.

Like, some shit just ain't worth it, bro.

Like, bro, like a pocket spot? I'm saving my record for, like, something happened to you, somebody do something to Aaron, Eric, my niece and nephews.

I'm

saving mine for a pocket spot.

The principal, they ain't about to pump me on those five, bro.

They might bully you on the spot.

They ain't about to bully me on the spot, nigga.

No better.

I

don't care about that shit.

I don't like parking next to niggas anyway.

Shit, that's what burned me up.

Because I park in the back of every parking lot.

Now, when you park next to me and I park in the back, that shit make me so fucking mad.

Like, nigga, I'm looking around the parking lot.

All these fucking spots you park directly next to me, my nigga.

Like, what's wrong with you? That's some psycho shit.

That do bother me.

Fuck.

Especially, like, when the area's empty.

Right.

Like, nigga, all these spots.

All these spots.

You had to park next to me, nigga.

We ain't friends.

Right.

Because I don't care.

I don't park by the door.

I ain't trying to get to the car fast.

I don't want nobody hitting my shit.

Like, nigga, I parked to the back for a reason, my nigga.

Why would you park directly next to me? Like, bro, that's creepy, dog.

But they didn't release her name.

I know she's...

But the dude, Barty, he's like a 62-year-old former sergeant, army vet or some shit.

I don't give a fuck.

Yeah.

That explains exactly what his reaction was.

I know he was either in the military or an ex-cop.

I knew he was going to be one of the two.

Because he just doesn't...

They don't like people not listening to them, bro.

I don't know what's wrong with them, son.

Cops don't hate me because I...

I know a law good enough to not, like, not get arrested.

So if you arrest me on some bullshit, you know you got a lawsuit coming.

So I hope that happens.

Like, I'm waiting for niggas to be like, show me your ID.

I'm like, nah, bro.

I ain't committing no crime.

I ain't

got to show you no ID, bro.

What you going to do?

Then I'm going to start taunting them.

What

you going to

do?

Have a nigga filming.

What you going to do? I'm going to make a nigga hit me.

Oh, shit.

Like, they so mad.

Like, bro.

I can, like, they don't have no law that says you can't curse at the police.

Like, it's not illegal to be disrespectful toward the police.

It depends on how loud you are, because they don't hit you with a disturbing piece.

But I can say, fucking, get the fuck out of my face and leave me the fuck alone.

Shit.

Yeah, get the fuck out of my face, you bitch.

Right.

Don't you keep your voice low.

Right.

Because if you get loud, they're going to say it's disturbing the peace.

Yeah, you can't say, I'll beat your stuff.

You can't threaten them.

Yeah.

Oh, he threatened me.

I felt my life was in

danger.

I'm going to say stuff like, I know your wife cheating on

you.

I can tell.

Yeah.

Once you start throwing, hitting her with

the jokes, yeah, hitting her.

Give me some time.

Let me look at your badge, name and shit.

I'm going to go on your Facebook real quick, look you up, find your wife's name.

maria or something like oh yeah maria be sucking dick yeah i'm gonna piss that dick off yeah yo maria you know she's cheating on you right i know you joe she was sucking my dick oh you gonna slap me on the ground if i had enough time i you know i do my background checks i can address this shit you know i use that work i was over the mangan out that's your address homie

He's going to shoot me.

There's freedom of information, my nigga.

It's not illegal.

Oh, God.

Everything about everybody is online, my nigga.

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